Given this more accurate statement of the premises of the analogy, the resulting advice should be: if you want to be an attractive guy for your girlfriend, you will need to invest in maintaining your amenities. A basic , starter-list of attractive amenities includes: (1) rid yourself of ridiculous emotional baggage and defensiveness that would lead you to play games of reward/punish with your intimate partner--get honest with yourself about your feelings and stop repressing, denying and channeling them all into a puerile fixation on sexual penetration; (2) be sexually creative and flexible: experiment in different ways; (3) control & curb the amount of hair sprouting from your various orifices; (4) wear clean, fashionable but comfortable clothes, even when you are chilling around the house; (5) listen to your intimate partner and ask her what she fantasizes about every once in awhile; (6) surprise her; and (7) don't rely on your partner to take care of all your needs, diversify and reach out to friends and family so you have an active support network.

Granted, I know this sounds much harder than the simplistic advice offered by the site's author, but I guarantee you it will yield better results. of course, progress, not perfection is the goal.

of course, if you think bmws were created, marketed and sold by simply opening a dealership and rewarding and punishing potential customers, just follow John Alexander's advice.

if you think it's a little more complicated and are willing to be alive and do the accompanying heavy lifting, I guarantee you you'll have a finer, more alive and supple relationship AND SEX!