1. First things first, you have to have music. Our bodies naturally want to move and sway with the help of music. So pick up some seductive, yet slow music and turn it up! You want to pick something with a slower tempo and practice with the rhythm to get a grove for taking your clothes off to the beat of the music. You are not in a race; you don't want something too fast that would defeat the purpose. Slow down – nice and easy!
2. For the outer layer of clothing, pick something that you would wear on a daily basis. No not your sweats, something that you would wear to the office or dinner. This layer does not have to be “skimpy”, save that for the next layer!
3. Pick some lingerie that you are comfortable in. You must feel good about yourself or your strip tees act will not go as well as planned! You want to feel sexy, try out the garter belt and stockings, it really adds to the show!
4. Strut out of the bathroom and glide over to the music and press play. Dim the lights if possible – helps set the mood. Let your hair down and run your fingers through it or whip it around a bit.
5. Unbutton a couple of buttons on your shirt while dancing around. Flash your lover with a sneak peak of the underneath and then close your blouse again. Begin slowly unbuttoning your blouse and then give it a toss and drape it across your lover.
6. Turn around and dance shaking your bottom, then give a sneak peak by raising your skirt. Turn back around and lose the skirt. Dance for a bit allowing your lover to enjoy your sexy lingerie.
7. Continue until you are down to your stockings, garter belt and heels. Dance around a bit, making your lovers mouth water! Go over to your lover and tease a bit by giving a lap dance. Straddle your lover and dance around them.
8. Finally take it all off and well you can figure out the rest!

Have you ever looked at your relationships and wondered what was missing? Being a woman You should be pretty aware how insecure women feel when they are single or engaged in unhappy relationship. Even if they have an active social life and date often, they can't seem to find that special someone. On the other hand, some married women can realize they are in a marriage where love seems to be lost.

Why do most women struggle in their relationships with men?

There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but probably the main reason is that women simply don't understand men. The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they turn to all the wrong things:
* They seek advice from their girlfriends, who are just as clueless as they are in figuring men out/
* They read dime-store relationship advice from women's magazines.

If you're like most women, you probably love talking to your girlfriends about your relationship troubles, and asking them for relationship advice. The unbiased relationship experts say it is not wise to take advices from your girlfriend (or your mother, sister, cousin or aunt, for that matter) UNLESS she herself has a successful relationship with a man and the experience of counseling couples towards successful relationships.

Now, don't get me wrong. Some of your girlfriends might indeed have the wisdom to give you good advice. But that advice will almost always be based only on their own limited experience and observation. Just because your girlfriend has had an experience similar to yours doesn't mean her advice applies to your situation.

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* a single woman who wants to attract the right man or add romance to your dating life;
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* a married woman who wants to spark the fire within your marriage and enjoy deeper intimacy with your husband.

This information will help You understand men better and influence them to your way of thinking. As a woman, by virtue of your femininity, You have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, make him want to spend his life with you and want to fulfill your every desire.

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